Reciprocation of Love
*If somebody loves you reciprocate. It doesn’t have to be sexual nor a binding relationship leading to a boyfriend or girlfriend nor marriage. Just be open to hugs, nice comments, courtesy, and respect.
*If you are the victim of a crime, don't forgive until the victimizer has true empathy for their crime against you. It doesn’t mean they should get out of jail right away for premediated crimes. Just at least forgive them once you are sure they have true empathy and there are no resentments. And remember, no revenge, trust that GOD will make things fair.
*On the other hand if somebody "slaps" you on one cheek, don't turn the other cheek, instead tell somebody like the police, a friend, a school counselor, a teacher, a priest.